Nothing prepares you for it. I've just read your post and I couldnt believe how close it is to my nightmare that I'm now living in. I don't know how I'm going to go on without him. I awoke to what I thought was him snoring but quickly realized something was horribly wrong. I lost my reason to live on June 12, 2017 and just flat out do not want to go on without him. People that I called my friends don't call, they don't know what to say. Now I know what it means. My husband was unresponsive when they got him at the Hospital, Doctors came out to tell me that he passed away. I refused to believe the doctors, but he died 18 days later. I truly thought I could not go on without him but every day gets better. Hi, my husband passed 02/13/2017, and since then my life will never be the same. I am so sorry for all our losses! To my immediate right 40 feet away, my husband laid face down not moving his legs crushedhe died instantly. He went to the hospital to have a hernia removed. Thank you to all my sisters in this agony of pain for your sharing. When people tell me "I'm sorry for your loss", he is not lost. Jennifer, Poem About Moving On After Husband's Death, Love Forever Lost By He was my world and my friend. I am changed. It came back normal, but he had chest pains and then they decided to send him to ER. I don't even know if I am coming or going. I have to wait on God's will, but my life is empty until I can be with him. Missing You: 22 Honest Quotes About Grief We were married 10 years. I know he wouldn't mind because he was very open, but I always say it is morally inappropriate, and I am so involved with my daughter's bipolar and anxiety that I do not have the strength to even think of anyone else. We grew up together and now I have to start out on my own with no desire to be anyone other than his wife. Its been 27 days and feels like yesterday. I love her so much. Tomorrow would be the 2nd month that my husband passed away, 19 days after being diagnosed with liver cancer. It was a very aggressive cancer. Leslie Woody. As I read this, my skin spiked as your story and mine sound very similar. It is exactly how I feel! God is always with us. We were happy, so what happened? He developed hepatic encephalopathy during his last month of life, so my most vivid memories are of him being confused, having tremors, not being able to walk without help, or feed himself, he was restless, and said he couldn't breathe. But we know nothing about life after death - only a hope that our souls live on, and so I hold on to that hope that we will meet our loved ones who have gone on before us. Thanksgiving dinner was at around 4 p.m. We gathered at our daughter's home. I had 11 years to go until age 66. I don't think I'll ever love anybody like I loved him!!! We had 3 children together and now have 5 grandchildren. I started CPR and called 911- they tried to shock him several times but were unable to revive him. You are so right about grieving. I have changed for I, too, died when she did. We had a business together that we worked at every day together. I feel your pain. Delirium, yes it came on his last week of life. I have three grown kids that don't understand why Mom still is locked in this grief and crying every day. He suffered with cancer and it finally beat him. I begin to feel as if God gave me this wonderful man to me in reparation of my painful life. I miss you Poems for him . He was the love of my life. You will go on - as days and nights still continue to come and go. I lost my husband in the morning of March 20, 2017. They say she is in a better place. I look forward to joining him one day! Only later I would get a call that he and the bike were on fire. I learnt so much from him as we got married when I was only 18 and he 22. He was 53 years old. It's says everything in my heart ..and more!! He was the most loving compassionate man I had ever met. I lost my wife 22 years ago. "You were the heart of my life and the life of my heart". How could they? When will the sun shine for me and the light of the sun on my back feel exhilarating once more. I lost my husband on March 6 of 2015. I wear his wedding ring on a chain. His eyes, oh his eyes, I don't know how to do this without him. I can see his face everywhere I go or in anything I do. You are just beginning this journey of healing. I am a born again Christian, but l am in pain. My life hard with out him. I had to tell my story to deal with the memory of first day of his last week on earth. 3. We had no life insurance. There are times I feel a little better, but I start driving to the store and suddenly I'm crying so loud, wishing he was with me! I don't even know how to feel. Don't put a time limit on grief. And while I know God will get my through this, my heart still breaks when people only want to say time will heal, when I really just need someone to let me cry. He had a stroke at work and a brain aneurism and he passed at the hospital. Consider sharing the stanza that begins, "There is no friend like a sister, in calm or stormy weather.". Know why you miss your husband It may sound silly at first glance, but there are many different reasons you may be missing your husband! To my dear and loving husband. I am going on hour by hour again. He was 43 years old. I love you my beautiful Angel and I CANNOT wait to see that beautiful smile again!!!! No one informed us of what happen to him until we found it from our family phone tracker. But it's a different kind of sad now. I know he was taken up the Heaven by an Angel. People have told me that I am strong. D ko alam kailan ako mkaka move on. This makes his absence sort of sweetly painful, deliciously heartbreaking. Everyone says it gets better with time, but that's a lie it does not ever go away. The last few weeks he was in such pain, which he hid from me. Thank you my friend for that. I'm always thinking what went wrong because he had only been sick for a month. I had to keep living for our sons, but inside part of me died with my husband. I've never been sadder in my life. She brings me comfort. I lost my wonderful wife, best friend, lover, and support system on August 9 to lung cancer that had gone to her brain. I demanded a bed with rails right away or I was signing him out of that place! I terribly missed him, super missed. Dear Danette, When I read this poem I could really relate and am very sorry that you and your son have to go through this as well. Xx. My wonderful husband died one month and two days ago. I didn't even know he had mini strokes and was in the first stage of dementia. I really know what you're going through. I wanted to go with him. Will I ever stop wanting him to be with me?| I just don't know how I will survive without him. I am so lost without him. Poem About Being Lost Without Wife, Missing My Wife He is 38. Our kids are all grown and they are all wonderful but the empty house when I come home at the end of the day is almost unbearable. He was my world, my everything, my best friend, my lover, my soulmate. I even doubt if I was a good enough wife hadn't I taken good enough care. I was 36 with a 7-year-old. My diet . There are no time tables for how long you are supposed to grieve. I believe I will see him again one day. 30 I Miss You Love Poems for Her & Him (2023 Emotional) Everyone says it gets easier. I still miss him and still wish it could've been me. I keep hoping and praying I'll wake up from this terrible week and a half dream, but it is never ending. Your words are exactly my feeling right now. I feel a number of different emotions, sadness and sorrow to anger and despair. The killer has to this day not been arrested, but I am coming up on a grand jury hearing where my prayers of an indictment will be answered. I really miss my husband and his presence. I will never forget him he was the love of my life and I adored him. I'm a 40 year old mother of three kids, ages 21, 17, and 10. 4. Doctor said he passed away because of a heart attack. Life will never be the same. I still can't believe he is gone. today even if it's just for the day. I'm on SSI and disability, and he had no life insurance, so it's gonna be hard to move on moneywise. About 7 months later I met Barry. I will be yours infinity times infinity just as we always saiduntil my ashes mix with yours and we are joined again! They did wear any masks. Raised my daughter, raised other children who needed me. I made the choice for him to go in peace. Everyone thinks I am doing great as I have friends, involved in church and activities, and helping others, but in actuality, I am doing worse than I was a year ago. I am so sorry for your loss. I exist every day being grateful for 34 years with him. I do not want a replacement mateI want my best friend and soul mate back here beside me. We experienced all of the for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health before we even got married as he lived with end stage renal failure prior to us getting married. Mostly for my 2 precious daughters. Missing someone is a strange feeling. I find many widows and widowers feel like they're floundering as time passes. My heart aches every second of every day and struggle in fear to move forward. My Husband died on November 27, 2018, in our house. On September 1, I lost my husband and 12-year-old son in a terrible car accident. And missing you. Forever together heart and soul. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer July 12, 2018 and passed September 23, 2018. So during the day I try to be strong but when I get home I miss him so much. After calming him down and getting a nurse, I asked why does he not have bed rails? But when darkness falls I just read the submission From Lat, CA. He was always there, unchanging, my rock. My heart's completely broken. I am in the sun that warms you. He had a total of 3 open hearts surgeries with 2 of them being 3 months apart. Will I ever stop feeling guilty for being alive while he isn't. I also wish that others may not experience this. Maybe I could use some counseling. Four months married and he was ripped away from me. Talk about a "double whammy!" The pain never goes away it just becomes more bearable with time. I have comfort that he woke to use the bathroom and woke me to tell me he loved me and give me our usual 2 kisses! She was only 62, and I'm 64. I lost my home, which we shared together in 21 years and had to liquidate everything I owned for medical expenses and other obligations and still have debts of $20,000, but all of the material things mean nothing when you lose your soulmate. Tried to honor him and his trust in who he thought I was. Palliative care have been amazing. We have been together for 34 years, and he was my best friend and protector. Everyone says - give it time - I don't want time - I want him. I cry driving, showering, and anything else. These messages of love are making me appreciate my loving husband more, and for that I thank ALL of you! 23 Perfect Love Poems For Husband (Beautiful words of love to share The loneliness surrounds me; I lost my husband of 36 years on February 18, 2017. It could have been simply a hand on the knee in the car, holding hands in a movie, or holding each other in bed at night. But I really miss him, and our 14 year old is having such a hard time. But I carry on! Exactly how so many feel! He was not just my husband but best friend too. I held his hand and said "Let's make a pact right here right now that I will never lose you and you will never lose me". I feel for you. It hurts every day. I am a 55-year-old woman from the Windsor area. Do NOT submit poems here, instead go to the. I miss him everyday and I still have his ashes in my home as I cannot part with them yet. Are you okay?" He was our center, our life evolved around him. I don't know how to live, I was 16 when we became inseparable. It's all a bad dream. I cry day and night some places I can't even go it was our place. You carry them with you in everything you do and everywhere you go. He wasn't feeling well before we went to Florida and I said, "Do you think we should go." I am sad and full of tears. We were married for 62 years. He's never coming back. I can't seem to move past why this happened to such a beautiful soul. I miss fixing his lunch. I can't describe in a short space, if ever, all that he bravely endured and what we all endured with him, for him. He was hanging 1/2 was out of bed and shaking. See more ideas about grief quotes, miss you mom, grief. He got up in the morning and got dressed and went outside like he normally did every morning to get some air. I miss everything about him. The last year we were together every day. I literally thought I must be dreaming. I dream of him. Since that awful, dreadful day. Then one day he was gone. That's when I found out. He died at home with me and our youngest daughter at his side. At home, if I am not crying and turning into a puddle, I'm numb. This poem is rather lengthy, but you can share an excerpt from it at your sister's funeral. My husband fell out of bed when I wasn't there to watch him. Not once but twice. Until then Ill love him every day and remember the moments we shared. He died at home after being at the hospital for 8 1/2 hours for chemo and radiation. Love never lets go Hi Carol, I feel the same. In a strange way I am glad he died before me because I would never want to put him through this kind of Hell. That will never happen, I am so in love with my husband and don't ever want that to change. I am still grieving. The greatest gift he could have left me with. October 23rd, 2016 at 3:04 PM. I too lost my fianc on 4/13/2017, so suddenly and tragically. I love you, Gilbert, forever! I know he would want me to not get stuck in grief, but I constantly see him vividly on the day he suffered cardiac arrest in the dialysis center with no one helping him. My husband died on May 8, 2017. He was diagnosed in February 2017 and told in January 2018 that all avenues of treatment had been exhausted. To think people say to us it happened for a reason. We married in 1952. Waking up to an empty house and knowing that I am alone. My husband of 62 years just passed on February 11, 2019, just 3 weeks ago. I feel totally lost, hurt and sad. I often imagine him walking through the door again and throwing our little girl in the air (as she had him wrapped around her little finger) and talking to our son about anything. He stayed in his wheelchair a hour or less then wanted to go to bed. I lost my husband to murder. He was enjoying the life. I am so very sorry for your loss. 5. I miss him so dearly. I cry my silent tears. A man can no longer expect to be the breadwinner, and come home to a set table with a five course dinner and his pipe prepared next to his easy chair. He had 2 stents put in the Wednesday before and said he felt great from Thursday to Saturday. Young kids, and we grew this far. He was told he had this on Sept 13, 2016. I lost my husband, soulmate, and best friend nearly three years ago very suddenly. We were fortunate to have found each other, and I know that I was the love of his life. We have two children. My birthday is today and I just feel so lonely without him. I have had pictures developed of him and hang them just so I can look at him. I had just left for work and my son found him putting on his socks early that morning. <3 Reply by Mcgeorge Bsure 4 years ago My precious husband died March 20, 2018. He was my son's best friend who was diagnosed with autism at the age of 5, and my daughters hero!!!! It's not a day that goes past that I do not think of him. You may be comforted by a physical reminder of them, like a cremation diamond, their favorite sweater, or a photo. I lost my love on Feb. 24, 2017, 2 weeks after his birthday. My husband was diagnosed with lung cancer on Valentine's Day. We remember you always. He was only able to move a finger on his left hand. He had seen his doctor with a cough and was told it was a sinus infection. I'm 32 and I am just trying to deal. Sometimes I feel I'm Okay but no, I'm still in pain. Life was good. I love you a lot! Grief And Loneliness After Losing A Spouse I sit alone now in the darkness of despair. Every day is hard for me. It's all I think about and it won't stop. Life was perfect. I am a 60-year-old woman, and like you, living alone. He left me with so many questions, in a void like a black hole. My husband of 26 years had small cell lung cancer, and with chemo he lasted 9 months. It's so hard trying to wrap my brain around him not being here. We had just retired and bought a beautiful home! They just don't understand. Cry Not For Me. I'm not well, and my son cares for the best he can! We are raising three of our grandchildren. This daze is like sleepwalk I perform every day. Although I wrote this poem when my ex-husband and I were together, and it's been four years since we walked away from one another.not a day goes by that I don't miss him, miss us, miss what we used to be and what we used to share. I feel that the more you loved and were loved in return, the worse the grief. This has been so difficult. Our youngest a girl turned 2, eight days after he was killed. I miss him all the time and cry a lot. How does one move on from something like this? Yes the nights are hardest, sometimes you cannot sleep without some kind of help. He was in the Navy. I lost my husband not even a month ago on April 7, 2020. My remaining son and I just stood there and cried. We met when I was sixteen and were together our entire adult lives, 32 years. My condolences to you. I miss them so much. A few days before his passing, he burst into tears in his hospital bed and said "I can't lose you". I'm 17, going on 18 in January. It's so hard to keep your faith. He died 48 hours later from a PE. However, John got better. I understand, too well. None the less, seems like I miss him more as time goes by. I promised him I would learn to be happy, and this is what I am focusing on. I go on, but I'm screaming inside. I am so sorry for your loss. Until we see each other again. I met my wife to be 47 years ago. My husband passed away almost 3 months ago at the age of 26, because people on the road do not know how to drive. I am better than I used to be. Oh hell, where and how can I move on? He was rushed to hospital and had two operations. I am trying to fill my time with what has to be done, but I fell like I am just passing time. I'm so heartbroken. 13. Missing You Top 500 Poem 317 By Kathy Murphy Published by Family Friend Poems May 2011 with permission of the Author. Kiss more, hold each other longer, and don't sweat the small stuff, for none of us are promised tomorrow. Believe it or not, reading those letters, I didn't feel so alone. My heart aches for him every day, and I am so tired of hearing it gets better with time! Loss of a Spouse: 5 Things Only a Widow/er Understands We had one child. I've seen my husband suffer the worst. I have a very supportive family and love them to death, but it's a different love that I shared with my husband for 19 years. I know your grief, and it hurts so bad. November of 2017 we traveled the 73 miles to see the doctor. We promised each other that we will always be married to one another and that nothing and no one can separate us from our love for each other. And evening comes, He had a heart attack in our driveway. I have lost my best friend. When I didn't, because you can't, one by one they drifted away. I look at my 3 girls and see how brave and strong they are but are still in so much pain like myself. But even if you do not have children, you were left on this earth for a purpose - you have unique gifts that the rest of the world needs. And was loved in return. She grew from childhood, losing a lower leg from a farm accident, cancer tumor on vertebrae, paralyzed for over 2 years, cancer of the breast, 25 blood transfusions. We have two children, two boys ages 11 and 6. I hate what life I have left with NO future as we planned. I've lived. I am devastated also. Thank you for the poem and it is comforting to know we are not alone in this world. We were married 15 years, and he was 38 years old. I can't put into words how much he meant to me and our children and how much we miss him. He went home on March 17th I only thought I'd been thru it all NOT. We were together for almost 40 years, married 35. This continues to be true. Our Grandsons helped. I certainly didn't know what to do, the nurse's came in and gave him some Morphine. Life moves on and basically drags you with it leaving you still trying to compute the harsh reality. He never made it home. As time went on, he did not complain of any pain. I still need him! We had high hopes for her recovery. I felt as if a hand touched me up my arm and across my chest. Anyway, thanks for reading. He never was responsive after the surgery. I guess I came here to seek help in some way or just to talk to others who've been through the same thing. By This is what happened with my soul mate and me. Motorcycle accident. I hate to see you walk out that. My pulse plunges. I have lost my life.my future and my love. I Miss You Poems for Husband: Missing You Poems for Him Which I love with all my heart. Oh why, why, why, I keep asking. I still expect to wake up and this will all be the worst nightmare I've ever had. I miss him so much, but I know he would want me to be strong for our children and grandchildren. He was a talented singer too and a very loving and caring husband and father for 39 years. The only thing I can tell is I have come to realize that my life is forever changed. He never got to ride, so I told him be careful, see you later. My wife died 12 years ago. I miss you so much! I, too, lost my husband 7 weeks ago from an accident. Featured Shared Story My husband who was a professional boxer developed dementia at age 57 from undetected brain injuries. Someday I will see him again, but I have spent my life alone. Did you spell check your submission? I pray all who are going through this get peace. We were married 40 years back in October. My husband that I love so much passed away 7 months ago. I know the despair. My grandson has my husband's eyes bluish grey beautiful. He did well the next 3 years. Thank you. I seem strong, but deep inside l am bleeding. A few days before he passed away, he smiled at us and that was when he had his last stroke and went into a vegetative state. He passed one week after bringing him home. A widow friend shared a quote I believe is from Dickens. He was the absolute love of my life, my best friend - my life. I don't have many friends and I don't work. My husband passed away in 2011 and I am trying my best to do what everybody expects of me. Yes you count every minute, every second, hour, day and week. We were never apart for more than a few days the entire 22 years. Another beautiful missing u poem inspired many who have their boyfriends and husbands in prison. The nights are just the hardest. Grace A. Mandry. We were very close, and I still can't believe I'll never see his sweet smile, hold his hand, or enjoy his since of humor! He had battled different health issues since 2008. He was my soulmate, my best friend! Grief has no timeframe and will go on as long as it wants. Fool me. Never once did he complain about pain. He caught e-coli and died in my arms. It will take a long time before anything will come about. I am quiet and not easy to know. I lost my wife in April 2018. I am in the rain that fills your springs. Now what do I do? I am reading these messages today because we lost a dear friend to cancer, and he has left behind a wife and young son. He was in the hospital for two months and passed away at 39. My family is here now but soon will return to their own homes. My husband died five years ago at age 58. He somehow passed out then fell off his bike right in front of me. I do not think I am strong enough to accept this and live without him. He loved my kids like they were his own. My husband passed away three months ago very unexpectedly. We were teens, and all of the sudden he decided to go. I really don't want to live without my baby. He had had a massive heart attack. For it desperately seeks. My husband of 47 years passed away 10 months ago. He would tell me he can't wait until he retires so he can buy a brand new blue Ford pickup truck and we can just relax and go riding! I feel so much guilt; but isn't a wife supposed to call their husband when in need? I'm empty. Published by Family Friend Poems May 2011 with permission of the author. I feel for you, and reading all these posts helps me see I am not the only one who is going out of my mind. But your post was beautiful and a positive way to look at each day. I am lost without him. I haven't worked in over 6 years so I could take care of him. The doctor told me he was going to dive again and he would not recover. The shadows climb the wall. My dear husband had never been sick yet the last 17 days of his life was in a hospital. It was my first instinct as he was only 1 minute away in walking distance from our home. My life is so empty now. We were together for 22 years. I came here today because I was looking for him. He had a bypass surgery - it went fine. I feel your pain. The photo of the woman with her hand on her husband's pillow, at the beginning of this page, looks like me every night and morning. 12 yearsI can only imagine the pain and hurt. After that there was one infection after another. I began to pack up his things and next thing I knew a bed with rails came squeaking down the hall! I hear footsteps walking, If only we could go back and love like this again! Before I met him I thought I wasn't having any more kids, so I had my tubes tide. The emptiness I feel consumes me and as the days go by it gets harder and harder to go on. I do still feel truly empty, lost, and I can't stop my tears in the public or with my friends. I am so very sorry for your losses.
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