After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into the dynamics of my relationship and how to get it back on track. I am with a capi and i am a virgo with rising sign in scorp. Of course, in case something happens and you need his help, don't hesitate to text him saying what's the problem, because he or we will be there for you, but don't abuse that. Lets be honest: in the days of Tinder and Bumble, this is extremely common for both men and women. You would love to talk with him at length on any issue or seek any advice. I know these Caps are the King of Testing, so I know he is testing my Patience. The sweetness,the business oriented and ESPECIALLY the disappearing type all rolled into one. Its like no matter how much i tell him or try and show him i am there and made a mistake on judging him, he still shows no remorse for his actions. I asked if everything was ok and he kept saying he was tired from work. Its the 3rd day now, and I dont know if he will ever be back..? Worse I want to believe him so bad. I was disappointed but I decided to move on. I've been having more of that mentality lately. He appears to have really left this wife he married. Once they realize theyre not alone, they might think about returning to you. I just did it and went on with my day. And when we want fun (which is actually most of the time), the woman is very welcome to sit by her capricorn on that cliff, and then they can really have some great time. If theres no apology for disappearing on you, make sure they hear why such behavior is unacceptable from your mouth. Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 If you have found a Scorpio man who finds anything other than you interesting, then he is probably no longer into you. I was very nervous because that was not like him not to respond and I thought something happened to him. The Capricorn man makes a hell of a soulmate for a Virgo woman, and he and I both know for a fact that we are meant to be together. When a Scorpio man is truly in love with you, he is ready to commit because he sees that you are the only one for him. He feels very deep. Scorpio gets along well with Virgo, Pisces, and Cancer who dont mind allowing the domineering zodiac to take the lead in the relationship. Yes, it is true. capricorns will dissapear on you. He hurt you and nothing justifies his action. I've dated a cap for years whose been hurt b4 and he wouldn't commit n u stayed patient but I finally started thinking of myself n asking how long am I supposed to wait. in other words sometimes people r meant to b seasons in ur life. When the time is right, it will be. He says he loves me and that nothing is wrong, that he is just busy. Perhaps he started dating someone else because he was flirting with multiple women at the same time.. In 2014, she pursued more formal training as an evolutionary astrologer through the Steven Forrest Apprenticeship Program. Scorpio men tend to pursue the women they love and prefer one-on-one rendezvous. We had been arguing about things before this act. She has over six years of experience writing in various fields including finance, education, lifestyle, and entertainment. This relates to the Even though they may not open up easily, their traits of loyalty, honesty, and truthfulness make them desirable partners and add a certain charm to their personality. I do not see anything wrong in keeping things interesting. Help me please. He pro-claims through all of this tho that he really likes me and "ideally" I would be his girlfriend. Make sure u really know the man whom ur falling for and ask urself is he really worth the wait. So I'm hanging in there. He wants to see me again but he knows it can only be on a friendship level because I am married now. Read the list on why a Scorpio might And the fact is that, in some cases, the guy who was so into you were really just adding a notch to his bedpost. My unbiased and anonymous analysis takes the gamble out of deciding what to do. Maybe it just wasnt me. Long story short, I'm a 39yo Female Libra Sun and Venus, He's a 43 yo Male Sun Venus Mars Mercury in Scorpio. Things were going really well for almost a month, and then one night he told me he wanted to know where I thought things were going that he wasn't ready for a commitment but loves my company and wanted things to continue like they were. He has played the disssapearing act and gone to LA, but always calls every few days to tell me whats going on. You trust him with your thoughts and secrets and feel secure in confiding. If we get in a fight over the phone he will hang up on me and not call or txt for days 6 days was the longest. I have a Capricorn male friend who would continually catch my attention at work. I have been talking to a cap male for several years now. But dont be too sure yet. He used to take me out and buy lunch for me ALL THE TIME, he was "lowkey" affectionate at work and very affectionate in private. Which I did, he came and went. He was a nice person and all but just didnt know what he wanted. They must spend half their lives making up to these poor kids. You have to ask yourself is he worth it???? I am a Virgo. We have not slept together and it has been quite awhile. What makes a Scorpio man fall in love? He says he is with me because he loves me, and when he left his wife, it was because he realized she wasnt the right woman for him and he felt horrible for what he had done to me. The victim is left completely confused and they come here and open a treadasking about the Scorpio game. Creative and intelligent men who know their own worth tend to have a lot more going on under the surface than it looks like. He came to me yesterday looking for money. If I didn't text him back right away he would text and say "are you not talking to me anymore?" I texted back why whould you say that..( in my mind I thought if im sure OF COURCE! He seems to get himself caught up or "trapped" in situation after situation, when he doesnt have to. Who granted them a free pass because of their birth sign? That he wants to marry me. But what if a guy leaves you because he thought you were not good enough for him? Hi its been about a year now since my last entry. Please help me understand this jewel of a man. In all the time we've been together I exploded on him ONE TIME. Do not expect him to blurt out anything when you hang out with your pals. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. Turns out I hurt his pride by placing all his stuff in garbage bags outside.I told him that when you tell someone your in it, then you do not text them that your moving out when everything had been great. After the night we (my bf and I) briefly talked on the phone, his friend told me that after that phone call he seemed so happy and smiling all day and was really into his work as if he was enjoying it. I didnt want to talk with anyone and besides, the idea that a relationship coach would help me to feel better sounded funny to me. Now he has a car he has been using, that he doesnt know i know about. But I couldn't help sending a few txt messages later to wish him Christmas and the New Year. As mentioned earlier, Scorpios are good at taking the lead, and therefore, expect them to ask you out for a date. A Scorpio man in love will want to share his thoughts and feelings with you, and he will be more willing to talk about the relationship. You have to be very careful when lying to a Scorpio man because he is excellent at reading people and will probably know intuitively when you are lying to him. Copyright 2000-2021 In fact, don't even text them back, they will text you again". Either way, if they care they will be watching you for I think he realized he let a potential wife go but he still has a good friend. I would love this to be answered by a capricorn male if possible. After I sent him 2 or 3 loooooooooooooong letters filled with heart felt apologies from the depths of my heart and soul he messaged me to call him if I could and to not worry about anything. He could keep you at arms length to avoid heartache. But in other cases, he meets up with the new woman and suddenly his interest in you is an ancient relic: hes just not into you anymore. Its complicated between us, because when i met him I was married, now seperated. He seemed to be a little upset and I felt some payback knowing that my news irritated him. I thought it was over and then I text him Hi and asked what happened? So here we have a list of some telltale signs to help you decode a Scorpio mans feelings towards you. And the truth is that a smart and creative guy will lose interest in most women if they dont emotionally or mentally stimulate him. He tells me, he shows me. Things seemed to be ok, then like most of ur stories he stopped No more txt, nothing. He is a clairvoyant and I am an emotional intuitive and we knew each other in past lives and we are here again united. NOT EVEN THE HORRIBLE disappearing acts.. Im trying to figure out should I wait and be patient or continue on with my life. Personally I would let him go figure that out on his own. I also am very understanding and patient. So, just think about it and try to reflect on his desires and purposes. Once he gets it in his head that hes not up to your standards, it can be very difficult to make him see his own worth. yes I was with one for 15 years abd he went off in his own world for four weeks every year he used to have a tantrum sit his dummy out and go Last time he did it I met someone else and now cai is devastated but after my annual dose of him saying its over believed him and moved on from the mind games yey! I have noticed as well everytime we have a really good day; he dissappears for a couple of days. It might just be simply something that happens in the beginning with Scorpios or it might just be the dating lifestyle in general I am not sure. just enjoy the moments and see what it is. He may ask how your life is going or why we stopped talking all together without explaining why he ghosted you. The bottomline is, don't push your capricorn and make him call you when he "disappears" only to prove you by a mere and banal phonecall that he cares (sometimes we see it as a waste of time, because we mainly like proving and to be proven certain things by our and other people's acts). Suppose you are being swept off your feet by the Scorpio man too quickly without having any evidence of commitment yet. The ex is out of the picture I don't ask questions about that or him because I don't care for him in anyway and I don't wanna bring him up but its to the point now where I feel my insides hurting from missing her or not seeing her or what am I doing wrong that she won't committ to me we do everything else everything but no title and I've been single since aug 07 until now and I don't want to be anymore but its not on me its her help me what am I doing wrong ? He admitted that he had feelings for me but they were not strong enough for him to stay. This is a big reason why some guys act interested and then disappear: they were only ever interested in feeling nice, not in pursuing an actual relationship. is a Scorpio. I really hope my and the penultimate comments clarified a little bit how caps work. BEcause you saying that you want a long term relationship he's going to test you and see if you can stay committed to what you say. 21 years of experience solving real problems for real couples. ------------------Gemini sun 12thCancer asc 1stTaurus moon 11thTaurus venus 11thLibra mars 3rdGemini mercury 11th, Posts: 5971From: N. AmericaRegistered: Nov 2010. Its obviously the case that many men have a strong sexual focus and enjoy sex. It is a clear indicator that you have won his trust, and he perceives you as someone with whom he can share his life and experiences. The children sometimes can feel like its their fault their father does not come home. I understand needing time away, but I don't understand how he thinks this is fair to me. This makes them disappear too. His excuse was that he felt lonely. Your plan will not work if he pays no I couldnt understand bc we were (by this point) so off and on, back and forth, I was officially confused. These could be possibilities why he disappeared. so we talk about being together again, and he comes to see me but yet as you guessed itnothing came from itwe still talk but i am totally and madly in love with him but he is so offishits aggrevating. To all the females that are dating capricorn men, form experience i must tell you that when they dissapear, they just need time for themselves, they are very private people, they just need time apart from everyone, eventually he will come around, but always let them know you will be there for the no matter what, they tend to reassure themeselves from time to time, if there was to be a problem with you, i am sure you will be the first one to know. WELL THEN WHAT IS THE FREAKIN PROBLEM? I found out about calls from other women, and messages, he says are not important, but i still feel very insecure. With that said, the Scorpio man doesnt want some girl to be his one and only. Instead, he wants someone who can also date others while he does the same for himself. We tear ourselves from your embrace, we descend from heaven, so we never take it for granted, a lesson we learned long ago. When a person wants u for real, they r going to b there for u to want to do for u and not just take. Scorpios are affectionate, and when they consider someone to be close to their hearts, they are not afraid to show their love for them. Whatever the reason a man decides that hes not good enough for you, it can be near impossible to change his mind. The truth is that certain types of guys just love the thrill of the chase. At this stage, you can say that the feeling is strong from both sides. But the other is that they have sex with you but dont like it. Idk what changed so suddenly and how to react. Sometimes they get lost in their thoughts and just want to be alone. Me 42-Pisces/He 52-Cap - Amazing romance for the first 3 wks, then he broke up with me because we weren't able to reach a compromise on when the proper time is to have sex. Is it possible that this man really does love me, finally, can I exhale and know that he is for me now? So i happily agreed, saying I was just going with the flow, that I didn't just want a fwb or something that would go nowhere forever, but at this point I wasn't worried and he said that he wasn't closed down to the option of more and that things can happen. Come to find out, we're not compatible, per the therapist. btw when Saturn went rx it was opposing the exact degree of my Mercury. Even though no one can control how others decide to treat you, you can control how you treat yourself. Taking the lead to ask you out, opening up about himself, being protective and possessive, and making intense eye contact are some signs that a Scorpio man loves you. This means that understanding how the Hero Instinct works can help you to make him, and actually, any man, committed to you. I cant tell you how skeptical I was because I felt depressed. He's the first one I dated and I have many other guys asking me out but this Scorp is in my skin!!! I am not into games but it is helping me to see him as a Scorpio and see he feels deeply. WebScorpio loves the fact that you are so patient with him. He leaves you on read Sure, he got your text. Tina Fey When its just about his ego and feeling important and liked, you can be sure that a guy will lose attention quickly and get distracted: Thats because he was never that into you in the first place, only into the attention and validation you gave him. Then I him logged on to the computer about 2 weeks later. If anything he was obsessive. Capricorns can be the human equivalent of a truth drug. Expect to be showered with positive compliments around a Scorpio. Lol that being said, I have been in so many terrible relationships, this being my most stable and happy one, that if he needs his space of course I'll give it to him. We have a connection that will always be and its ok. This is a very hard issue to overcome because you cant force someone to come out of their shell. However, if encouraged, he will be gentle and courteous around you and show you his sensual side. He doesnt want to waste time stringing along a girl that he doesnt want to be with. He also said he wasn't going to tell his daughter right away that he was dating me because other people had hurt her in the past. I told him I found another place and was moving, he was very interested in seeing the place, and moving back with me and our life. The night before I asked if he was just being nice and giving me the hint but he said no that he wanted to take things slowly and his emotions overcame him. She dreams to create an uplifting documentary one day, inspired by her experiences with strangers. Or he could become bored with you and your company. And now he doesnt want to continue with it. Webthe good news is that generally speaking, scorpio men don't just come out and say such vulnerable things unless it's coming from a place of authenticity - and as a highly sensitive I am sooo upset, and confused, and hurt. Although these signs may help to identify a Scorpio mans emotions, having a conversation is the best way to determine each others feelings. Thats why Aries is so obvious when they are rejecting you. He said he was looking forward to a visit later on that summer. What Im having trouble with is this disappearing act that he pulls every few months. Scorpios will tell you both good and bad with complete honesty. after sometime they give chance and come back if they think it is justified. I only have eyes for him. You might also see him acting more distant or cold emotionally and physically. He would always come back and initiate the conversation with a txt saying I love you or I miss you sometimes I would be so mad I would talk crap immediately and he would go right back to ignoring me. If you dont feel like you can be this person for him, its best to let the relationship go to find someone who fits his needs. by So you do not have to be the only one putting in all the effort. She completed a masters certificate with Steven Forrest in 2016. Lucky me right!? I had to give him some serious space. I think as you and Venusian Moon and 4life phases stated, I just need to move on at this point and if he texts me great, if not he wasn't worth it. no wonder they are loners!!!! It's easy to do. Its well-known that some women fake orgasms, but some men also play it up in terms of how into sex they are with you. He then answers fewer of your messages and stops responding in any way to you, even if hes physically around you. Still, all of them rely on an unauthentic intention towards her personhood and ours as women overall. This protective behavior comes naturally to them. He could disappeared for about 3-4 days without even telling anything. How to know if you're with your soulmate. NO TEXTS, NO EMAILS, no anythingbut when he's in town he calls and spends time and self with me, or drives a million miles to see me for a day then drives back or sometimes even takes me with him to his work. The last time he did this I told him he can be free but he can't keep coming in and out of my life like that. I meet him on a dating site..things started off rough after our first date b/c I thought he didnt like me ( we had an GREAT DATE btw) ..he disappeared for two days and he was back.we dated wonderfully its been a month and some weeks.he came over b/c he missed me and wanted to hang out b4 our next scheduled date over the weekend. I really don't care to hangout so don't want u to waste ur time. After all, with so many reasons that guys bail out on a budding relationship, how can you have any confidence that you wont be smiling today and in tears tomorrow? If you dont heed his signals or take his boundaries seriously, he may disappear altogether. He consumes my mind and I all I wanna do is make him happy. WebScorpios will bundle into their cocoons and disappear for days together and see if you miss them and love them. When I do that, my Scorpio man always says - "why do you have to respond immediately. It is important to remember that to know a mans traits and interests, you need to get his birth chart analyzed by a professional. It's been a week and I'm about to lose my mind b/c I miss him so much! so dont try to tell them that boss this can not work. He will be protective of you. For the Scorpio man, disappearing acts are all about preserving his options and those of others, so by ghosting someone, its not always a case where they dont care, but relatively simply because they want what we might consider their freedom to do as they please. And they provided ways to work on that problem and get through this difficult love situation. There just seems to be something missing, and they dont feel right. He came back for 1 day, spent the night, and left the next day promising to return, he did not. He will say that he is missing you and be upfront because it will make him feel better. I have Mercury in Taurus Saturn is opposing it. But lately, he is really getting under my skin and we've been arguing a lot.
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