I had a wet dream but I woke up seconds before my orgasm. Remember, if a matter is doubtful the certainty takes over, i.e. 8. He is an active instructor at SeekersGuidance and answers questions through the SeekersGuidance Answers Service. But of course, we know its meaning is authentic, as you have shown other routes which are authentic. The issue of whether masturbation is permissable or not is an area of disagreement, as there are no explicit evidences to prohibit it. And I am very confused. If you masturbate quite often, it's likely that you won't have a wet dream, I'd you rarely or just don't masturbate, then you'll likely have . Sister Hena, jazakullah khair for your response. Asslaam u alaikum, Umm Sulaym (may Allaah be pleased with her), who asked the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) about a woman who sees a dream like a man sees (i.e., an erotic dream). The negative self-talk will lead to feeling catastrophic and the cycle gets worse and worse so take control of your thoughts by making positive statements. 8 Answers. Or the angels who are with you recording everything you do to be questioned on the Day of judgement? Having a sexual dream does not mean the person had an orgasm, although it might. If ignore it in this case and then it turns out its maniy will my fast and solah be affected? Each woman has a general pattern of how her monthly cycle proceeds. So you just wash yourself up and make wudu, but no need to make ghusalAnd Allah knows best. I dont know what you mean by the treatment. I told my husband and he thinks it may be an infection. Reading this article and others I have seen on this website, I get the strong sense that Muslims obsess too much about sex. In the hadeeth you are talking about, when Umm Sulaym asked about ghusl from a dream, she was told, if she sees water, I saw a wet dream. Am I to just live in my bathroom? Id been trying to finalize my article on this topic for almost one year now but :). Registering ones marriage necessary as per Shariah. I thought this was the intention that youre supposed to make in the beginning of every prayer. Can you kindly elaborate this ahadeth that if a woman, donkey and black dog passes in front of you your prayers are anulled? I cant imagine anyone in their right mind saying yes. As for the practise of sprinkling water in ones garments to purify them, it should be avoided. How can one have a wet dream which includes an orgasm?Does this mean whilst shes asleep she has an orgasm.Can this orgasm be heard from people around her? http://islam-qa.com/en/ref/22750/ejaculation%20thoughts, Female Wet Dreams: Islamic Perspectives & Regulations The Journey to Marriage, Should Parents Tell Their Children About Changing Hormones? Sorry the link wasnt working here it is again Secondly, please dont be so hard upon yourself. 5. How convenient. I appreciate you writing this article it helped clarify a lot. However he has a mutabaa for this hadith as that same incident was also related by someone else with a sound chain from the hadith of Anas may Allah be pleased with him. He/ She has to perform ghusl to cleanse himself from janabah (impurity), if maniy (semen) was emitted. As is reported on the authority of Aishah (May Allah be pleased with her) who said that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) when performing ghusl from janaba used to wash his hands, then wash his private parts with his left hand. In the narration of Al-Bukhari it states that he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) then turned aside and washed his legs. `Aishah said: Someone asked the Prophet (peace be upon him) about a man seeing himself discharging in his dream though he does not feel wet. He studied numerous texts in Islamic Law, Theology, Hadith, and other areas with Shaykh Faraz Rabbani and other teachers, including Shaykh Abdurrahman al-Shaar, Shaykh Ali Hani, and others. Firstly, jazakAllah khair. If I have some kind of sexy dream and when I awake up I remember the sexy dream and found a little mazi on my penis,will gusl will cumpulsory on me,because I have heard that if u remember the sexy dream and found mazi then u have to take gusl,I am hanfi and plz tell me in "yes or no" do not refer me to another fatwa. It is out of her control, especially for younger girls who may be experiencing many hormonal changes in their bodies. I dont indulge in these thoughts and I dont want to think them and if they do come Im always worried if Ive discharged and im always checking. It has to be accompanied by an orgasm. jazakAllaahu for the reply. One certainly is not expected to take ones pyjamas to a lab for chemical testing. 1.) [Ibn Abidin, Radd al-Muhtar], Upon remembering a wet dream and finding wetness upon yourself, a ritual bath (ghusl) is obligatory for you to perform in order to pray except if you are sure that this wetness is merely a sweat or post urinal fluid (wadi). I read your explanation of orgasm and the part where it says when a person wakes up before having an orgasm. 2. I m actually confused i read on ur website two point first saying that if u dont remember having seen a wet dream and unsure whther wetness is mani, madhiy etc then u dont do ghusl. When I feel something I think its orgasm and since Im not sure of the characteristics of maniy, I will think any discharge I see is maniy. So, should I have done a ghusl or must an orgasm be completely fulfiled? I washed myself and went to work thinking of all this again (and probably had more wetness appearing therefore) and when I came to work after few hours in toilet I felt that wetness again. Just so that some sisters dont get confused, the link to the above fatwa regards to female discharges, seems to have ikhtilaaf over the issueand this matter doesnt seem to be as black and white as described in the fatwa, wAllahu taala alam. Many times the kids are confused and dont know what is happening to them or what they have to do according to Islam, and all this confusion could be avoided if the parents simply have this short talk with their kids. Other uncategorized cookies are those that are being analyzed and have not been classified into a category as yet. Is this specific to wearing the khimar during salah, or does it mean wearing the khimar in general when going out of the home? Keep in mind that I dont have my own family or kids yet, so what I said is only based on my observations, so I might be completely wrong, and Allah knows best. Islamic law necessitates a ghusl following such an event and if a wet dream occurs while fasting it does not break the fast. During my sleep i sometimes experience this vaginal throbbing that occurs from a sexual dream i saw. Im sorry for being so explicit, but this is just porn covered with an Islamic label. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger. He said: Women are the full sisters of men. [Sunan Ab Dwd and Sunan al-Tirmidh]. Keep yourself busy doing constructive things, volunteer, visit the elderly, help with little kids and try not to spend too much time alone. i need to know if i is normal or i need to consult to doctor? For men, and women alike wet dreams may or may not be accompanied with a dream and this will require a complete article to explain with medical/psychological references and a response will not do complete justice. . And to the brothers, if you knew the messenger of Allaah sallallhu alayhee wsalam, his wives and companions were reading this, would you dare utter such words like: In response, I just wanted to share my experience. Aisha (ra) said: The Messenger of Allaah, sallallahu alihi wasalam, was asked about a man who notices some wetness but does not remember having a wet dream. ..its been few days that Ive noticed Im getting wet dreamsIm also a med student but am totally confused bout what shariah have for itshould weve to do ghusl? i apologise about this, I dont know why im having such a difficult time with this. But sometimes scenarios are different; could you please be so kind to give me answers to few scenarios? Other uncategorized cookies are those that are being analyzed and have not been classified into a category as yet. 3. If the discharge is followed by orgasm, then ghusal. If she does not know what an orgasm feels like etc?? 4. I cant smell my underwear as it was the same one I wore when I had the wet dream before suhoor. if she sees wetness then yes she should It is not allowed at that point to use ones own hands or any instrument to insert or rub vaginal area to reach orgasm and feel satisfied. I will appreciate a response looking at this issue of masturbation from all angles, including the Islamic principle of choosing the lower of 2 evils. If a woman is ovulating and before she went to bed, there was some wetness; when she slept, she had a sexual dream, but she cannot remember if she had an orgasm or not; upon waking she finds wetness. I would recommend that if you know Arabic that you look at Sheikh Al-Albanis takhreej of this hadith in his Silsila Sahiha under hadith # 2863, his commentary on it might be of benefit inshaAllah. They said, Prayer is annulled by a dog, a donkey and a woman (if they pass in front of the praying people). I said, You have made us (i.e. After an orgasm, the wetness is called Mani.. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "Yes, if she sees water (discharge of fluid)." Ibn Qudaamah (may Allah have mercy on him) said in al-Mughni (1/130): If he thinks that he had a wet dream, but he did not find any maniy, then he does not have to do ghusl. These cookies help provide information on metrics the number of visitors, bounce rate, traffic source, etc. In the vagina, this swelling creates a sweating reaction, producing a fluid that makes the vaginal lipsget wet. If I get some discharge from my vagina when I think about sex, do I have to do ghusl after that? - Having wet dream without ejaculation: If one has a wet dream but does not find any traces of ejaculation, there is no need for ghusl in this case either. Pour . Yes, definitely. Please can you help me. If a person masturbates when they are awake and this causes the ejaculation, then that is different than a wet dream and it also has its different ruling in Islam since it is voluntary ejaculation where as the wet dream is not. So this might be confusing for many sisters, so I suggest a post is written about it to clear things up. The question of womens presence cutting off prayer is one issue that Sayyida Aisha (ra) disputed, and her refutation of it is noted in Sahih Bukhari: That is true, because Aisha may Allah be pleased with her was not aware of the other hadith of the Prophet peace be upon him which stated that the woman passing in front of the man who is praying cuts off his prayer, and based on what she saw the Prophet pray towards the bed in which she was lying down in. We all make mistakes but only a few of us actually reflect back and learn from it. One of the matters that we discussed was about the exact nature of female wet dreams. ?is ghusl only necessary when a woman sees a yellow fluid when she wakes up from sleep?? Does a woman have to do ghusl if she has a wet dream? The Prophet said: Yes, if she sees water (a discharge). Umm Salamah covered her face and said, O Messenger of Allah, can a woman have an erotic dream? He said, Yes, may your hands be rubbed with dust. Registering ones marriage necessary as per Shariah. I understand its impure, but what am I to do if I cannot control it, the thoughts arise randomly and unannounced, and it happens so often? How Can I Know the Time for Fajr in a Country Where There Is No Real Darkness? So that is one and second I do not understand what is a counted as vaginal discharge that lead me to shower. its normal for a woman to have vaginal discharge and its normal for a womans vagina to become more wet or lubricated when she is aroused. Al-Bahr Ar-Raaiq: Sharh Kanz Ad-Daqaaiq reads: It is an obligation according to the agreement of the (Hanafi) scholars to perform Ghusl if one is sure that it is Maniyy (semen) whether or not he remembers having a wet dream, and if he is sure that it is Mathy and he remembers having a wet dream., The reason they say Ghusl is obligatoryis that what came out could have be semen but after a long time it became thin so when waking up, the personbelieves that it is Mathy. It was nice and a very open talk since the one giving the lecture was a female herself. When waking up from wet dream, do we immediately have to take shower? She also received her Ijaazah in Quranic Hafs recitation in Egypt from Shaikh Muhammad al-Hamazawi. It is a dream where you might see yourself or some other girl with some guy. Just wondering if theres a hadith to this? Sister i am 21 and i get wet dreams even when i am awake,so is this also one of the kind of wet dream?is it sinful?? If one is really not sure what it is at all then one must perform the bath as the Hanafi school emphasises extreme caution in this issue, and rightly so for he that has no purification has no prayer and he that has no prayer has nothing. 4. The intention is the fact that you for example want to pray maghrib 3 rakahs, so that intention should be in the persons heart and is not to be pronounced with the tongue before you start the prayer. The cookie is set by GDPR cookie consent to record the user consent for the cookies in the category "Functional". dietary, and other factors are not e.g. Or even more conveniently, there is material available on the internet. Sometimes some sisters get strong rhythmic contractions but they wake up and do not touch that part. I dont know what to do because I feel I am constantly going to the bathroom and cleaning myself, so much so that I change my pad at least two to three times a day. It seems that she takes issue with being lumped together with dogs and donkeys. To conclude, since the female wet dream may or may not be accompanied by a discharge, contrary to that of men, I posed a few questions to the shuyukh based on the discussion I had with other women and I received following answers from Sh. GET MARRIED. Im an unmarried female who dont know about wet dream. Convert: Issues with Family Dog & Learning Fiqh. Does female maniy gushes out too? I dont know how reliable the internet is but i read a hadith somewhere but I cant remeber the exact words that the prophet said if you see your discharge is thin and yellow. there are a number of questions related to orgasm from sexual thoughts while awake or ejaculation while awake from sexual thoughts please help for the sake of my peace and the validity of my prayers. Answer: Vaginal discharge does not necessitate ghusl, no problems here. How can one interpret dreams given by Allah? Is she equal to a donkey and dog ?? In the name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful. It is not as simple to explain the orgasm in words. And yes, we cover a lot of taboo topics because we have a tendency to hide our dirty laundry. )then carry on the conversation from there on to telling them about the changes they may see, in future, in their bodies and how it is normal, and what they should do when it happens. Yesterday night, I had thought about having a wet dream before I slept but when I woke up I think that I had a wet dream but I cant remember the dream but I know I felt somehow and I feel my leg was weak but I was having doubt if it was due to wet dream or because I was startled by the alarm that woke me up. 3. Of course as any fiqhi matter, this too, had ikhtilaf (difference of opinions). I think shaytaan is just playing with your mind and making you doubtful about your taharah status. and Allah knows best. i really wish that this issue be clarified, perhaps an article on this topic would be convenient. How much value and peace of mind such information could add to these young people. If a young lady constantly think about sex while fasting does that break her fast? Quick question I have a friend who experiences discharge on a daily basis even in the morning but she never recalls a wet dream so shall she do ghusl if she sees any discharge colour like white or yellow, if your sexuallt excited you have to perform wudu not ghuls but if you have an orgasm you have to perform ghuls. What must we do in such cases? Wet dreams are caused by a build up of semen and other reproductive fluids. It was reported from Abd-Allaah ibn al-Saamit that Abu Dharr said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: If any one of you stands up to pray, then he has a sutrah [an item placed in front of a praying person as a screen] if he has something the height of the back of a saddle in front of him. One clear way of distinguishing between the two is that orgasm is followed by an immediate cease of all sexual sensations and leaves a woman exhausted and drained. Uncertainty about purity and wet dream. Here is that hadith for those who are interested: Narrated by Khawlah Bint Hakeem, who asked the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) if a woman should make ghusl when she has a sexual dream, he (peace be upon him) said: No ghusl on her unless she has a discharge, similarly there is not ghusl on the man unless he ejaculates. (Related by Ahmad, Al-Nasai, Ibn Majah, and Ibn Abi Shaybah). Now I am not sure what to do due to the Hadith that a Junub person cannot recite the Quran. By clicking Accept, you consent to the use of cookies. Allah knows best, and Zubair Ali Zai classed it as Daif; he did not think its status could be raised, although others did . With regards to your statement there is no haya in issues concerning the deen, Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Shyness is part of faith. So shyness in religion is part of faith, but when someone says There is no shyness in religion, what he means is that there is no shyness in matters of religion, i.e., in asking about something concerning which one may feel shy. Unless a person wakes up in the middle of the orgasm and is able to feel it, they would not know if they had an orgasm during their sleep if they find no wetness when they wake up. or may be its not pain i cant explain that what that is. If this is what is meant, then it is better to say that Allaah is not shy to speak the truth. I thought though, and Allah knows best, that that Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) use with pray with Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) sitting somewhere in front of him, and she would move her legs when he needed to Sujood and then replace them (in front of him) when he rose again? Sahih Bukhari, Volume 1, Book 9, Number 490: I totally agree. I didnt do a ghusl after this bacause I was not sure. Im very often having wet dreams. What am I to do? Aishah said: Someone asked the Prophet (peace be upon him) about a man seeing himself discharging in his dream though he does not feel wet., The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: He does not have to bathe., Brother Amad, Im a bit confused. pls urgent response.. I saw a wet dream but I wasnt doing anything wrong in my dream. My question is I my dream a man is pinch me near my privat part but I didnt feel any thing No doubt one most ask in order to educate themselves. I read your description but Im still not convinced. And like the narration in Sahih Muslim in which the Prophet sallallahu alihi wasalam indicated that a mans prayer is cut off when a woman who has gotten her menstruation passes in front of him.. It is said that certain foods which are considered hot can lead to nocturnal emissions. These cookies track visitors across websites and collect information to provide customized ads. Or just in front in general, because then things could get a little dicey where praying in public is concerned. and we dont have to ghusl. We do not know of any difference of opinion concerning that either. I have 2 3 questions which you have already discussed before but due to some different situations i have been confused getting a correct answer. It is better to educate her once the signs of puberty start appearing in her. What can I do? Saba Syed (aka Umm Reem) is the author of International award winning novel, "An Acquaintance." In fact, the Shariah itself recognizes wet dreams as a sign of puberty. 6. Subhanak Allah wa bi Hamdika wa tabarak Asmuka wa taala jaduka wa la ilaha ghayruk. As much as I would love to answer them back privately, I see much benefit of putting the answers in this section. and that Id be able to see the discharge. These cookies track visitors across websites and collect information to provide customized ads. InshaAllah maybe you can also just throw in the method of performing ghusl (at least the faraid). Do I have to bath in this case? I would have appreciate knowing ways to reduce the frequency to avoid having to take 3 showers in one night, if for no other reason :). We perceive that you are affected with some sort of Waswaas (devilish whisperings/obsessive doubts), so we advise you to ignore them and not pay any attention to them. Answer: In the Name of Allah, the Most Merciful and Compassionate, You are only obliged to make-up prayers if you are not certain or reasonably sure that you experienced a wet-dream and did not perform the ritual bath. However let me ask you and everyone else who deem it acceptable for men and women together to speak about such explicit matters, if you knew the messenger of Allaah sallallahu alayhee wsalam, his wives and companions were reading this, would you dare utter such words like: Some Quick tips to reduce frequency of Wet dreams. May Allah grant us and you well-being. Questions cannot be asked through this form. You will get obsessed about not thinking about it which essentially gets you more focused on it. does that mean ive been aroused even though I was trying not to think of it? A mothers education is sincere, pure, and free of any vulgarity.
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